What are good icebreaker questions for a first date?

Good first date icebreakers are questions that are fun, not too personal, and spark interesting conversations.

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First Date Questions & Icebreakers

Need first date conversation starters that actually work? These Would You Rather questions are perfect icebreakers for dating apps.

1.Would you rather always have the perfect conversation topic or always know the perfect time to end the date?
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2.Would you rather share your most embarrassing story first or hear theirs first?
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3.Would you rather accidentally spill your drink on the first date or have something stuck in your teeth all evening?
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4.Would you rather meet someone who texts too much or someone who barely texts at all?
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5.Would you rather have an amazing date with bad chemistry or an awkward date with great chemistry?
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6.Would you rather know immediately if there's a second date or enjoy the mystery of not knowing?
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7.Would you rather have your date show up 30 minutes early or 30 minutes late with a great excuse?
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8.Would you rather be overdressed for the date or underdressed?
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9.Would you rather go on a double date for the first meeting or meet one-on-one somewhere public?
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10.Would you rather have the date planned perfectly or be spontaneous and see where it goes?
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11.Would you rather laugh too loud at their jokes or accidentally not laugh when you should?
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12.Would you rather ask too many questions or talk too much about yourself?
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1.Would you rather date someone who loves the same music as you or someone who introduces you to new artists?
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2.Would you rather be with a morning person or a night owl?
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3.Would you rather date a homebody who loves cozy nights in or an adventurer who's always planning trips?
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4.Would you rather be with someone brutally honest or someone who always spares your feelings?
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5.Would you rather date someone who plans everything or someone who's completely spontaneous?
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6.Would you rather be with a foodie who loves trying new restaurants or someone who cooks amazing meals at home?
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7.Would you rather date someone with a big friend group or someone with a few very close friends?
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8.Would you rather be with someone who loves pets or someone who loves plants?
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9.Would you rather date someone competitive about games or someone who lets you win sometimes?
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10.Would you rather be with someone who shares everything on social media or someone very private online?
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11.Would you rather date someone who works a lot but loves their job or someone with lots of free time in a boring job?
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12.Would you rather be with someone who calls or someone who only texts?
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1.Would you rather go on a date to a fancy restaurant or a fun arcade?
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2.Would you rather watch a scary movie together or a romantic comedy?
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3.Would you rather cook dinner together and risk disaster or order your favorite takeout?
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4.Would you rather go mini golfing or bowling on a first date?
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5.Would you rather meet at a coffee shop or a cocktail bar?
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6.Would you rather take a cooking class together or a pottery class?
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7.Would you rather go on an outdoor adventure date or a museum date?
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8.Would you rather have a picnic in the park or dinner with a view?
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9.Would you rather play video games together or board games?
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10.Would you rather go to a concert or a comedy show for a date?
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11.Would you rather try escape room as a first date or karaoke?
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12.Would you rather go on a brunch date or a late-night dinner date?
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1.Would you rather know your date's love language immediately or discover it naturally over time?
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2.Would you rather date someone with the same goals as you or someone with completely different but compatible dreams?
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3.Would you rather be with someone who challenges your opinions or someone who always agrees with you?
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4.Would you rather know all their past relationship history upfront or learn about it gradually?
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5.Would you rather date someone who prioritizes family or someone who prioritizes career?
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6.Would you rather be with someone emotionally expressive or someone more reserved but deeply caring?
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7.Would you rather date someone who moves fast in relationships or someone who takes things very slow?
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8.Would you rather be with someone who remembers every detail you share or someone who makes you feel heard in the moment?
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9.Would you rather know immediately if someone is 'the one' or enjoy the journey of figuring it out together?
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10.Would you rather date someone who pushes you out of your comfort zone or someone who accepts you exactly as you are?
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11.Would you rather have deep conversations on the first date or keep it light and save deep talks for later?
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12.Would you rather be with someone who forgives easily or someone who never forgets but works through it?
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Would You Rather questions work great for first dates.

Tips for Dating Apps:

A fun question immediately shows personality.

These questions naturally reveal values and preferences.